Steps to Giving a Women an Ultimate Orgasm
Let’s say your now alone with a women, you’ve led her somewhere quiet, and she’s now ready to have sex with you. Here is an exact blueprint you can use to get her to achieve that ultimate orgasm.
Foreplay first
First and foremost, begin with foreplay. Gently caress your womens body with long, gentle strokes with your hands across her body, up and down, slowly and relaxed. Avoid sexual areas at this moment in time such as the bum, breasts and genital area.
As you do this, spend time smelling and gently kissing the womens neck and behind the ears. Don’t cover her in saliva, just smell and peck her softly with your lips as you tell her how good she smells and how excited she makes you feel.
Carry along these lines for at least ten to twenty minutes. Longer if necessary. You can make a judgment as to how turned on she is getting by the body language she gives and the groans she may begin to give.
She may encourage you to please her more. Hold back a little. Don’t go giving her exactly what she wants straight away. Heighten the anticipation.
Getting naked…
When it comes to removing her clothes, continue much like you were before. Spend time on each body part that you remove the clothing from. First, you remove your top �” this will make her feel more at ease. Then, remove her top �” leave her bra on. Gently stroke and caress her arms as you slide the top off. Start smelling her neck again and slowly glide your nose down her body, over her belly button, until you get to her trousers or skirt etc.
Now head down to her feet. Work your way up each leg individually, caressing and softly stroking with the tips of your fingers.
Remove your own bottom half of clothing �” don’t rush this �” but don’t spend as much time on this as you do for the women. Remove your socks but leave your under wear on.
Now, unbuckle her bottom half of clothing and pull them downwards as you stroke past each of her legs. Remove her socks and follow with a minute or so of foot massage being gentle at all times without tickling.
You are now both only in your underwear. Head on up to her face and kiss her deeply and passionately �” not a slobbery one. Make out with her for a minute or so and work you way down under her chin and neck, smelling and kissing.
What to say during sex…
Whisper in her ear what you are going to do next…’I just adore the way you smell…(pause), and how soft your skin is….(pause), I’m now going to gently work my way down your body, caressing your smooth, sexy skin…(pause), I’m then going to remove your bra and gently pleasure your breasts…’
Work you way down to her chest and remove her bra. Gently cup and stroke her breasts and kiss them. Gently glide your teeth across her nipples…Gently!
Keep working your way down to her underwear. Run your fingers across the top of her panties where they meet the skin. This gives a great sensation!
At this stage, remove your underwear. You should now be totally naked.
Gently slide down her underwear and completely remove them off her legs.
You are now both completely nude.
Act as though you are almost too comfortable in this situation. Tell yourself in your head…’I know what I am doing and I know how to please this women.’
At the same time you want to make her feel very much at ease. Offer compliments that are true and not too obvious e.g. ‘I just love the bottom of your back…(pause), it’s just so sexy and smooth…’
Not: ‘your hair looks great’, this is one she hears every day and there’s a good chance it doesn’t look that great right now anyway!
You may wish to continue with the smelling and kissing of her neck that you were doing as you started out. Make a judgment as to how ready she is.
I now want you to slide your nose down her front again, from her neck, over her breasts, over her belly button and into her genital area.
I’m not going to focus on oral sex here, I’ll save that for another day. Instead, you should have her so worked up that she’s wet in the genital area.
If she’s doesn’t seem turned on enough, that’s OK. Just continue with the long, slow, gentle strokes across her body and the smelling and light kissing of the neck punctuated occasionally with a deep, passionate kiss.
When she is showing all the signs that she is ready, you can begin penetration.
Getting inside her…
I’m presuming you are fully erect now. If you need to wear a condom, do so now.
I now want you to begin stroking her vaginal area with the tip of your penis. Don’t fully insert it yet. Remember, heighten the anticipation.
Make circular movements with your penis around the vaginal lips, slowly and lightly.
You may wish to stimulate her clitoris (the bud-like gland at the top of the vagina) with the tips of your fingers. Do this with circular motions.
Now concentrate on entering your penis deeper into her. It is most likely that the outcome of the steps so far will mean that you are on top of her. So lower yourself down into her gradually.
Go in a couple of centimeters then pull up again. Then go down again but a couple of centimeters deeper. Repeat this going up and down progressively until you are fully inside her.
Offer her support if she needs it like…’It’s OK, I’ll be gentle…just relax and let me pleasure you intensely…’
Proceed with standard penetration. Don’t suddenly lose your gentle touch immediately and start humping like a horny rabbit! Start slow and gradually speed up.
Pay attention to the feedback she gives you…if she says ‘harder’ gradually penetrate deeper. If she says ‘faster’, do so.
If you’re on top of her, let your pelvic muscle (the pubic hair area) stimulate her clitoris as you grind against her.
Smell her neck and body again every now and then and kiss her lightly on the lips followed by a deep, passionate kiss.
If you find yourselves changing position i.e. Her ending up on top…great, keep it interesting. Go with the flow and pay attention to what she wants…whether she says it allowed or makes it obvious through her body language.
Keep at this and hold your ejaculation. If you feel you are going to ejaculate before her, ease off the penetration. Relax. Keep her stimulated with your fingers. Then proceed.
Continue with this and in no time she’ll be screaming with delight.
It doesn’t have to stop there…
I hope you found this information helpful. Bare in mind that this is only one routine for sex. By that I mean you shouldn’t repeat the same routine on the same women every night. Spice it up a little. Mix it around. Find out what turns on your specific women.
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